IN A NUTSHELL: Saying Goodbye To The Ninth Graders (Even Though They Stop By Next Week
Just For Fun)
No Break Even though the ceremony did not start until 10 in the morning,
we all came in
for our morning meeting as usual at 8:15. At around 9:30, Nosohara-sensei told me to go out
and be a receptionist (like she had asked before.) So I went out.
Reception involved giving everyone a program (though married couples only received one
per couple) and having any guest who was not a parent sign in. To do something like this, it would
probably help if one could tell who the parents were and who the couples were, right? So why did
they assign me, another teacher that is newer than me, and only one veteran (Yamaguchi-sensei)
to greet everyone? Both of us had to look to her almost every time, trying to
discreetly figure out who belonged to which parent couple and who was just a guest.
On top of that it was freezing standing in front of the door, so every time no one was in
the area, we'd gather around the kerosene heater again.
The Graduation Ceremony
There are no special clothes like gowns and mortarboards, the graduates just wear their school
uniforms. (Not that I wore any gown for my 9th grade graduation, I just wore a dress, but apparantly,
there are no such gowns, even in high school.) The ceremony was pretty straightforward and had a lot more bowing than I expected. A Lot more
bowing. I mean, I EXPECTED a lot of bowing, but there was a LOT of bowing.
The 19 graduating ninth graders entered the gym to Pachelbel's Canon and bowed as a row before they sat down.
Misawa-sensei (the
homeroom teacher) called their names one by one. The first and last student had to
bow to both the guests and the teachers. The rest went up on stage, bowed to the principal, received
their diploma, then bowed AGAIN to the principal. The student never faced the audience, so we got
to see the backs of a lot of students as they bowed twice.
I was wondering where the pretty, red bows we painstakingly tied would come in, but then I saw it:
the students were rolling up the certificate at their chair, putting it in the bow and putting it
under their seat. They all had secret red bows stashed in their uniform pockets.
Strangely, the name of the student who hasn't been here in months was called and a certificate was
set aside for him. He couldn't possibly
have graduated. Anyway, after the certificates came the inevitable speeches.
For EVERY SPEECH including the mayor, the superintendent,
the PTA president, the elementary school principal, and the principal, the speaker bowed to
the guests, bowed to the teachers, went up on stage, bowed to the flags (the Japan flag
and the Sakugi flag), took his/her place
at the podium, bowed to everyone then, after the speech was finished, bowed again to everyone.
We all bowed back from our seats which, though I've seen it many times, still looks strange (like
we are assuming crash positions.)
Two students did a slide-show presentation successfully designed to start nostalgic tears flowing.
A 2nd year came up to give a speech after that, which I was impressed with because he seemed to do better
than any of the other speakers.
After the speeches came the songs (and some more bowing). I was kind of irritated with the song
we all sang.
The few complicated kanji compounds I knew (and was all impressed with myself for knowing)
used a different word in place of it. (Japanese
songs do this sometimes but at karaoke, they always show the furigana.) For example, "shunkan" (which
means "moment") was sung as "toki" (or "time") for no obvious reason. For posterity, I faked it. I also faked the
Japanese National Anthem and was just glad I didn't have to put my hand on my heart or anything.
That would have felt vaguely... anti-patriotic? ("I pledge allegiance to Sakugi!")
Then, the ninth graders walked out to more music and received a red flower.
All together, the ceremony lasted an hour which I suppose is not too
bad.
Auditorium to Gym in 45.6 Seconds While the flower boxes were being lined
up and people being arranged for group photos (and vice versa), the younger students were striking the
gym. They had the chairs, tables, podiums, signs, decorations gone so fast, you couldn't believe they had
just held a ceremony there. I was impressed. I got to be in one picture (or about three dozen since I
think every parent was standing next to or behind the professional photographer taking their own shots,
several of which having me putting chapstick on) and even the parents got to be in a picture.
The Reception Me and a few other teachers were
warming up in the staff room
(I think I caught a cold while sitting, bowing, and singing in the freezing gym) when a teacher came and told
us that the teachers, parents, and underclassmen were headed outside. We went outside to
find everyone lined up in two rows leading away from the door. Apparently, the 9th graders would soon be walking out
the front door of the junior high school and
onto new and exciting things. We were there to (sniff) congratulate them and wish them good bye! It
reminded me of a wedding. After hearing "samui"
("it's cold!") perhaps
a record number of times, the 9th graders finally came out with their flowers. The underclassman handed
them individual posters that all the kids had signed, some had even more flowers to give and a couple
were mysteriously passing envelopes both ways. Then the students haphazardly moved onto the teachers and
shook everyone's hand as they received a 'congratulations.' A lot of the third years even came to me,
but probably just because I was next in line. They all said "Thank you" in English and couple even wished ME luck,
which I was surprised, but pleased at.
Then they moved onto their parents and it was tear/photo time. I rarely saw a dry eye, especially among
the female teachers and students, but also among the males - notably Misawa-sensei, though Tomomi-sensei
told me he had cried last year when he was the 3rd year homeroom teacher.
It was not so teary for me. Perhaps
because A: I hadn't known the 3rd years more than 6 months and had not developed a close relationship
with any of them and B: I don't think I'm quite as sensitive to sentimentality as the others (and
C: this should be celebration! I remember thinking at my 9th grade graduation, "All right! I'm done!
I'm outta here!")
Since I was standing between two
photogenic Japanese teachers, I got to be in some photos. Two 3rd year girls actually asked me
specifically to be in their photos (which I was surprised at.) All in all,
it was a pleasant reception despite the chilly wind.
We're Outta Here It was lunch time and the teachers and underclassmen
all had the typical fare (no natto this time) though I heard a younger student complaining about it.
I'm impressed with how consistently good school lunches are... do students not agree? Maybe it is a rule
that Jr. High students must not like their lunch.
(I mean, when I was in school I remember being fed things like "pigs in a blanket.") Anyway,
the teachers hung around and sorta had a meeting then we left early, excited to go on the staff trip
to the onsen in a nearby town.
It took me forever to figure out why they were not eagerly giving me a lift: they
were taking a different route home that would take them directly to Miyoshi (where all the teachers but
me live) and
it would be inconvenient for someone to drive me back to Sakugi from there. Luckily, the place we were going was
on my English map AND they let me follow Inoue-sensei who has a big, white, unmistakable mini-van.
A Cute Little Village... With Three Parking Lots The drive up on
infamous becomes-one-lane-at-random Route 375 was fun. I felt bad every time a car was stopped, waiting
for us, because we were in a dozen-car entourage. If our lights had been on, we would have looked
as if we were in a funeral procession (do they do the lights-on car procession thing in Japan?) One thing funny
was when some truck was stopped in the middle of the road having its tire changed and the guy waving the
flag had to suddenly contend with Traffic in the middle of nowhere. Anyway, the drive up through
the deep countryside to Midori-cho was rather nice and we arrived quickly at our destination on
the top of a hill:
"Kagura-monzen Tohji-mura". Given its name, I thought we'd be seeing some kagura, but no, just a nice soak in
the onsen. The atmosphere was very quaint. It was built up to look like an old-style Japanese village
(except for nifty amenities like a washer/dryer and a Haagen Dazs vending machine) and was really cute.
We even got to walk around in wooden slippers.
I found out after we'd been assigned our rooms that I had gotten lucky. Only two women were
staying overnight - me and Moriguchi-san (the female staff member I get along with the best).
Yay! After retrieving our robes and towels from the closet, we walked to the hot spring.
I had the outside (but private) onsen to myself again, though I really did not understand why.
What was everyone else doing? I saw at least four or five other women in the shower area, but
the outside is obviously the Good Place so why were they staying in the boring indoor one?
The men seemed to agree with me since I heard
a number of their disembodied voices from above while I was outside. Only once did someone join me; it was
one of the part-time teachers, so I chatted with her for a bit. (Well, I THINK she's a part time teacher.
She looked vaguely familiar. Maybe she's the art teacher! I hope so because I was talking pretty
familiarly with her.) On the whole, though, I didn't mind being alone and soaking my muscles, still a bit
sore from jogging yesterday. Anyway, the ryokan gave us a very thick, warm yukata over-robe thing to put over
our regular yukata robe when we were outside, so we did not get cold. All this for less than
half the price of the 'fancier' ryokan we stayed at last time.
Fish and Beer I walked in, and realized I was supposed to have
brought my wallet, which was annoying because I was specifically watching
Moriguchi earlier to make sure she did not take her wallet. Suddenly, it appeared from the deep
pocket of her over-robe. Do'h. She temporarily paid for me.
Then we picked a seat number and fate was on my side. I got to sit between Tomomi and Misawa.
Woo hoo! Anyway, our typical fare was a lot nicer here than at the last ryokan
for a couple reasons. Partially it was because we were at a table that was arranged in a square so we
could see everyone and hear everyone (or we could have if the people in the room next door were not being
so loud) and I think there were less of us here, too. It was much more pleasant than last time.
The only food I didn't like was the flower soup. (?) Well, it was soup (it can be tea)
that has a flower in it for taste.
I can't drink it. It tastes like I'm drinking plastic or sucking on a flower petal.
Moriguchi and I ordered a Chu-hi instead of beer. A Chu-hi is sorta of like a wine cooler, but
not quite as sweet. You can buy them in cans at convenience stores but the restaurant had to do a little
looking to find some for us. Anyway, I had a lovely time talking with Tomomi and drinking my two Chu-hi.
It turns out he is into karaoke, too (and apparently can sing Queen because a Queen song is on the
extremely popular hockey drama "Pride" right now.) He said, "Let's go to karaoke sometime." Cool!
The more karaoke buddies, the better.
Where's the Party? Since I've been on my regiment of sleep (I've been almost
consistently going to bed at 11) I've been in a much better mood and have had more energy. I've gotten
a lot less kanji studying and reading done, though, which is unfortunate. Anyway, I'm sure Misawa-sensei
was surprised
when I was like, "Where's the Party?" after dinner. So we got ice cream and everyone brought their
munchies up to the guys' room where we all hung out and proceeded to get drunker. (Well, not me, I just had
one more can of Chu-hi and watched everyone else get drunker as I munched on the chocolate people had brought.
Next time, I will remember to bring munchies too.) There were six guys and two girls all together (some
of the people at dinner had left) so we sat around the table. Mimi o Sumeseba was on in the background.
Tomomi said a lot to me.
He said I was a good ALT (this is always nice to hear) but that I should
always talk to everyone in English. He said that the staff room should be like an eikaiwa.
He appreciated that I was trying to learn Japanese, but thought I should speak in English first and
seemed very passionate about this (though was, of course, quite inebriated).
He was so passionate, in fact, he had me go around and ask everyone (in
English) what they did yesterday. I really felt like I was at eikaiwa, but I didn't mind. The good part was
that this struck up all sorts of interesting conversations because it turns out a lot of them
are really caught up in this doctor drama. The shared notes on characters and I think Moriguchi-san
had missed some, so she was trying not to listen, but not trying that hard. I also found out that
Matsubara-sensei
plays pachinko a lot. Really, a math teacher ought to know better...